The term "
coming out of the closet" is usually attached to the notion that someone is publicly acknowledging their alternative sexual orientation. Typically they do that because they are tired of hiding behind a veil of lies and deceit and/or wish to appropriately acknowledge the person that they love. Taking that action used to be right up there with suicide, and certainly in some parts of the world it remains so.
Fortunately, in much of the world, and a large portion of the US, it's now greeted more casually. In some cases, friends are glad they no longer have to pretend they haven't figured it out. Other responses may still be negative, but for the individual it's got to be a huge relief to have "
that" out of the way. They can move on with their lives.
However, the term doesn't apply exclusively to sexual orientation. It can also be used to describe any number of personal attributes that people feel they must hide. Some come from a silent presumption that their friends simply won't understand. In the last couple of years I've seen people "
come out" and reveal that they've been closet Liberals, closet Red Sox fans, and even (gasp) closet Slytherins. In some eyes, these are far worse transgressions than being Gay or Lesbian. In fact, for some, I'm sure they're right up there with the official list of mortal sins.
So, with that in mind, I think it's time I came out of the closet. I'm going to confess. Before you jump to conclusions, please take a minute and a bit read more.